The Toxicity of a Narciccist
Your body knew she was toxic before your mind admitted it.
A foolish woman will purposely create storms that demand all your attention. She will keep you off balance, making you put out fires, because thats when you're easiest to control.
Were you constantly fatigued? That was your nervous system in permanent flight or fight.
Those headaches? That was your brain trying to process the cognitive dissonance of loving someone hurting you. She has emotional manipulation down to an art form. It is all she will ever accomplish.
Peaceful men have time to think. And peaceful men realise they are being played. Peace is the enemy of a foolish woman. A wise woman creates peace.
Many narcissists do not have friends who live nearby. Their toxic aura repels anyone from getting close. Space is left only for new supply or useful ex's susceptible to hoovering.
Every time you set a boundary, was it met with emotional terrorism. Boundaries aren't requests for permission. You don't ask someone to respect your boundaries, you enforce them. A foolish woman continually disrespects them. Disguising it as 'confidence'.
A foolish woman has an unhealthy obsession with material things. Her entire sense of self worth comes from what she buys, wears and shows off. It hides her emptiness.
A foolish woman uses emotional manipulation.
• Monday, you're the best thing that ever happened, her soulmate.
• Tuesday, you're given the silent treatment for crimes you didn't know you committed.
• Wednesday you are exhausted, not knowing up from down.
• Thursday, she is back to normal again.
• Friday she threatens to leave you.
The manipulation is both surgical and cyclical. She doesn't just lie. She creates alternate realities.
She will scream at you for over an hour, because you 'provoked her'. Remaining calm only makes her move to level 10. A foolish woman has no accountability. She cannot self-examine. A walking disaster.
A foolish woman reveals deep envy. Envy is poison to the soul. She cannot be happy for others, she cannot build a future with anyone.
A foolish woman has a complete lack of control. Exploding in anger. A slave to her impulses. A wise woman feels her impulses but pauses, reflects, and has self control. This is strength.
A foolish woman is dishonest. Always. She hides truth, lies and manipulates facts. Even for the sake of winning arguments. A foolish woman has no deeper vision of her life. She never asks 'who am I becoming?'
None of these signs are about beauty, status or wealth. They are about character and heart. Wisdom makes someone attractive far beyond their appearance.
Don't be fooled by glamour if it hides an empty soul. Chaos for passion. Manipulation for love. A wise woman admits her flaws and grows. A foolish one, denies and repeats them on new supply or previous discards.
Look for wisdom, personal integrity and peace.